Of men and lust

In a man's loins lays millions of miniature human lives, all ready to be a complete human being once it pairs up with a woman's egg; if it can defeat other sperms in the mother of all races, inside a potential mother. Imagine, in a spoonful of sperm, there are already 300 million sperms and I am sure there are more than a spoonful of sperms in the testicles.

This desire is auto generated inside each of the sperms, programmed in its own instinct, to live, to survive into the next phase of life. All of this desires are communicated into the mind and heart of the man. The man receives the messages from the millions of living sperms and it culminates into a single simple message, similar to the key message in the movie Frozen : to let it go. Subconsciously, the message is received by the mind. The man cannot deny this overwhelming desire of its own making. It's inevitable. The millions of sperms have to escape their skin clad prison some way or another. A wise man understands and manages his desires. But then again, most men can't really compute when it's basic instinct is yelling and screaming for a happy ending. Or a beginning.

Not realizing that it's more of a biological desire creeping in their minds, most just follow this innate want. If they don't have a ready partner, they make elaborate plans to have one. Either a permanent or a temporary one. And the partner need not necessarily a very desirable one. Research has shown that men can either go for woman they found attractive – or to one they didn't fancy much at all. That's probably why there are so many transvestites that prey on this male weakness. At the right or maybe actually the wrong time, even a goat in a skirt may be abused. Sometimes, even without the skirt. Culture and religion recognizes this. That's why there are many barriers to fornication. High dowry, complex paperwork, lengthy cultural rituals, parental agreement, family consent, large expensive ceremonies, religious consent and others that make fornicating almost impossible and mind boggling. Break these rules and one faces a whole lot of trouble, from getting fines to whipping to stoning. Ain't no joke. People die from this.



And it's also weird that women (most times) get blamed for this. If you poke your finger into someone else's nostril, would the owner of the nostril be at fault? Impossible, right?

It's an epic battle of control going on every day, for the future of mankind. That's why Plato said 'Always be kind, for everyone is fighting a hard battle.'